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It apparently started when SNOY started mandating linking PSN accounts to steam/PC version of the game
/r/PCGaming: Helldivers 2 to require linking Steam account to a Playstation account starting on May 6th. It was previously optional due to technical issues at launch
/r/Games : HELLDIVERS 2 Account Linking Update
The revolution begins
Aftermath:
/r/steam : Helldivers 2 went from one of the most beloved Steam games to one of the most hated pretty quickly
PCGaming :
ENTIRE /r/Helldivers
Devs trying to put out the fire
https://old.reddit.com/r/Helldivers/comments/1cjyll7/some_groomercord_updates/?sort=controversial
Apparently some countries can't create PSN accounts like Sri Lanka and they can't play the game they bought now because they can't create a PSN account
Just lastweek they were dunking on Tarkov, the irony
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These are the biggest AI achievements from the last 5 years:
1) The bottomless pit greentext
2) Race-swapping filters. They're really funny.
Everything else I've seen so far is just uninteresting slop.
- NotMichaelDouglas : Sharing a reddit post against the author's wishes.
- SnappyIsMyWaifu : But she didn't consent
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Lost friendship over... not leaving my husband?
ETA: I do not consent to this appearing outside of this post in any articles or other forms of media.
TLDR: I tried to vent about a bad day with a friend and she decided to throw every complaint I've ever had back at me and demand that I give her space until I leave my husband because he's a very typical husband of this time.
Let me preface this with my story about last Friday. Last week I had a no good rotten day. I had an appt to get my hair done for the first time in 5 years and was going to have to take my 6 yo with me because school was out that day. As soon as I'm leaving town to be just on time to my appt, my 3 yo daycare calls and they didn't know if she's sick or not and want me to do something. So I show up and decide to take her with me even though she's obviously not sick to minimize any issues and get in some much needed self care. I message my hairdresser, but since now I'm running late she can't take me. I big cried the whole way home because I was so disappointed that I tried to do all those things they talk about and life just thwarted me. It sucked. I was also PMSing, so I moped the rest of the day.
Here's the part that got really shitty:
I messaged an old friend that I talk to every week or so and we complain about general life shit together. She's chronically ill with no kids and I deal with all the same stuff posted here constantly. We vent and offer advice, chat about other stuff, and whatever else. I try to not focus on the negative, but I think that's our dynamic. She never seemed to want to hear the good things as loudly as the complaints.
So, I vented about my no good very bad day and she laid into me unexpectedly about me playing into the patriarchy because I waited 5 years to decide to start doing my hair again (I think?) and basically that she thinks I'm a doormat to my husband because he doesn't pull his fair share with chores (it's a work in progress, and definitely had improved over our relationship), because he doesn't make as much money as I do, etc. I do too much.
Now, didn't get me wrong, I complain about the chores and shit that always needs to be done, probably too much to everyone, but I brag about him too. He's the nicest person I've ever met. He's a wonderful father that really takes 50% of the kid duties, loves me and says it often, thanks me often for things I do that are just regular mom things, s*x is great, I could go on. He's my person.
So anyways, I thought she was a safe space to complain about motherhood and life because that had been our relationship, but she laid into me and read me the riot act dredging up anything I had ever mentioned that was less than stellar, ignoring any good things. I set a boundary that I was getting frustrated and angry about this conversation and needed to step away, since I wasn't feeling heard about the one bad day I wanted to talk about, but she told me I deserved to be pissed and kept going.
I told her that if I wanted to talk about my bad day and have someone rant at me with all the things they think are wrong with my life, I would have called my mom and left it at that for a week.
This week I decided to check in, because I figured whatever happened that caused her rant was a her problem and given the space of a week we could talk and I could apologize for trying to be purposely hurtful and we could maybe have an adult conversation and set some boundaries moving forward to maybe lighten up our dynamic since it seemed to be in some terrible spiral.
Nope.
I got a book for a reply, which from the selected lines I skimmed, doubled down on me being a doormat, accused me of giving her PTSD, and accused me of constantly whining and refusing to do anything about it (maybe fair criticism for her point of view, she doesn't see the daily work and if I mentioned it, it was often overshadowed by her own complaining about life and her advice is often ultimatums and drastic choices that do not make a healthy marriage). The last line was basically to "give her fricking space" until I'm ready to leave my relationship and she unfriended me.
I'm just shocked that someone I've been friends with for almost 20 years would lay into me and throw away our friendship because I didn't take her terrible advice and tear apart my family because I have the same mental load problems that most moms have.
And her marriage isn't perfect, her husband tried to frick me when I was in college (he was 30+ at the time) and we had to sort that all out as adults and were still friends after.
Writing this out I can see how this became an unhealthy dynamic between us in the last year or so and so I'm less surprised.
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For the uninitiatied: This is the absolute r-slur who spent weeks arguing that "2 + 2 β 4"
https://www.westernjournal.com/wokeness-comes-mathematics-academics-saying-225/
He's also famous for making sophomoric ggplot charts in R to show off his "data science" chops
and going viral for bullshit like this:
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While I heartily agree with your points regarding sex/gender, may I suggest also posting interesting and positive content on other matters?
— Elon Musk (@elonmusk) May 4, 2024
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(Lemmy only keeps the removed comment contents in the public modlog for 24 hours)
(note that modlog comments are not in any particular order, except for the order the lemmygrad jannies got around to deleting them, usually after banning someone)
Is panned_cakes arguing with the lemmygrad mod directly here?
"You moderate a voice chat full of literal kids"
It was removed for "wrecking"... what does that mean?
Panned_cakes is a very active hexbear user, posting frequently, often to [email protected]. A lot of the posts are bardtier intellectualized rants, but a bit more intelligent.
https://hexbear.net/u/panned_cakes
He seems dedicated enough as a reddit type that takes himself seriously, which makes me think he might be onto something
anyway he also posted a bunch of that lemmygrad mods removed for being "reactionary"
panned_cakes goes on to declare himself a conspiracy theorist, and promote "disinformation free" threads.net
[I have become completely distracted from reading the lemmygrad modlog at this point ]
Yes, Threads supports activity pub I didn't know that!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Threads_(social_network)#Possibility_of_open_interoperability
[back to the gulag]
People on lemmygrad (well, mainly Leftcommunist1918) LITERALLY cannot stop talking about man vs bear, and in real time are getting jannied:
If you check the lemmy.ml modlog, it's full of people getting really heated about man vs bear, and a bunch of leftist nerdy men being like "this is the last straw. I was only ever nice to women, and yet I see their kind choose bear???"
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If God offered you a chance to go back in time and tell your parents not to give you a computer as a kid, would you do it?
You'll lose every bidya you've ever played every obscure incelcore track you've listened to and all of your fake online friends from across the globe
But you'll gain a
- Lappland : /h/Asia
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True love β€οΈ pic.twitter.com/tqCombCPoU
— Kernel (@New_kernel721) May 2, 2024
Being a boytoy
Would he tho
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I hope Sony fire that community manager
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Duke University and University of Chicago Law School graduate top lawyer Rob Dart is homeless in LA. This lazy millennial needs to pick himself up by his bootstraps. https://t.co/Eemq2rb3jJ
— Golden Retriever Nationalism (@gldntlsm) May 5, 2024
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Plunge into an engaging prequel to the events of the TES4:Shivering Isles expansion as the world shivers with Whispers of Jyggalag. The familiar sights of sewers and Thieves Guild operatives quickly unravel as you find yourself caught between two opposing forces while traversing the deepest parts of Vvardenfell.
Explore over 40 brand new cells: four of them massive in scope and also including a town-sized faction base.
Immerse yourself in the lore, culture, and world-building of the mod through over 5000+ words of dialogue and 6000+ words of notes and books.
Navigate through the sewers of Suran, descend into the depths of a mysteriously abandoned mine, uncovering that which even Daedric princes chose to conceal.
Roam the now interconnected underworld of Suran with a sprawling sewer system, Temple catacombs, Thieves Guild base, and basement areas for many buildings in Suran.
Delve into meticulously crafted areas with over 200+ new meshes including a brand new tile set which evokes the Daedric style with Order imposed upon it.
Make a choice that will ripple across the boundaries of the realms through more than 10 Quests while working with the mysterious Order and the Thieves Guild.
Fully experience the Cult of Order with custom robes and armor crafted specifically for this mod and inspired by the TES4: Shivering Isles concept art.
Work with a Thieves Guild faction which specializes in hunting for valuable artifacts as you complete 4 new quests in the environs surrounding Suran.
Find yourself caught between two opposing forces as you traverse the deepest parts of Vvardenfell and even into the realms of Oblivion.
Learn more about the Logic Magic practiced by the Order as you deal with paradox traps, interact with the powerful Axiom Engine, and observe the Order's scientific studies throughout their base.
Test your puzzle-solving skills on a haunting trip to Suran's catacombs. See how stealthy can you be while acquiring the shattered reflection of a fabled artifact that can change the course of history.
Raid a tomb protected by illusions and see the rift where alteration and conjuration magic fold space between realms.
Encounter the juxtaposition of decay and rebirth as you witness the decay of Order and the cult of a dead god preparing for his rebirth.
Discover the revitalized Saturan and Inanius Egg Mine locations with new and overhauled content.
After playing thru this for a few hours I can recommend it since Jyggalag get so little attention it's fun to explore.