losing my mind at these people painting their dead grass green pic.twitter.com/txoGxdggu7

— Andi (@Apollyneo) April 10, 2024

Comments are full of self congratulatory Redditors patting eachother on the back about being woke to the grass menace, unironic John Green links.

it's just grass seeds and dyed fertilizer, terminal rentoid brain

jk shes still alive!

“Alpha male” bootcamp 🤦‍♂️

pic.twitter.com/5VIZqK6DGl

— Clown World ™ 🤡 (@ClownWorld_) April 12, 2024

Over 90% women will prefer this feminine non alpha 6'3 lean shy boy over that hipster alpha manlet

(Signs of alphas:

-man bun

-ankle bracelet

-screaming “I'm a man”

-Letting another man kiss your head

-Crying into a man's chest that you paid to tach you to be a man)

A flock of birds nestle together in the cold night, their warmth shared. Rabbits gnaw on grass in groups, each looking out for one another. The white glow of streetlights illuminates the path of a couple returning to their shared apartment that always smells like curry. It's small, but it's just the right size for all their fond memories together. And then there's me. Alone in my room with just a heater to prevent the shivers. But no amount of electric heat can warm my cold soul that longs to escape the freeze of isolation.

What's brutality? Brutality is having to go to the mall, see couples with interlinked hands, and for a brief second, have to bite your lip to stop the tears. Brutality is realising you haven't touched a female in months, maybe years, and it feels traumatic. Brutality is realising you're in and out of psych wards, spending thousands on mental health care when a hug would cure it all. Brutality is falling in love with your 49 year old psychologist just because she's nice to you.

There are no canyons deep enough to engulf the feelings loneliness, rejection, and inadequacy that come from inceldom. True incels that were born this way. They say there's somebody for everybody - a darn lie. There is nobody for a 156cm ugly poorcel. This you and I both know. Love will never come my way, and the bulk of my life, as I sit as a 28yo male, will be spent single, unadmired, and unwanted. It doesn't get easier from here on out. It gets worse as I age. This is the timeline of misery.

Does that give you some insight into what it feels like to be an incel? Maybe this will:

Nobody for the five foot freak. Nobody. I am a nobody.

I knew my girlfriend (we'll call her S) sold 'private content' a few years ago. She told me within a few weeks of dating and it took me back, but I was fine with it . She assured me that everything was deleted and she wouldn't do it again (there was some lying about how recent it was, but this is forgiven and forgotten)

Recently, though, I came across a LOT of her content. It's all over multiple different sides. Some clearly pulled from reddit and twitter while other videos were sent privately to people who then reuploaded them elsewhere. There are photos, videos, original captions etc. The works. This obviously isn't directly her fault and I am aware it's completely out of her control. That doesn't change the fact that it's an issue we're having to face.

When I found out, I had a conversation about it with her and explained that I'm going to need some time to process and I cant do it alone. I don't want to talk to my friends or family about it because they love her and I just need advice. Is this the kind of thing I should even want to get over? It's still very fresh and my head's a mess. Any help would be massively appreciated - I do love her, deeply.

Thanks in advance.

I don't want to talk to my friends or family about it

because they would tell you the obvious: to break up with her

Once on the internet, always on the internet.

advice for the r-slurs here that share photos and/or personal information

There isnt much you can do. Its not directly her girlfriends fault but she was very naive when she said that everything was deleted. What she meant was that everything from her profile was gone. But the stuff is still out there and will ALWAYS be out there.

This is something you have to come clean about. There will always be a chance that people you both know will see her content online. There is nothing you can do about this.

That is what I will never understand with people posting shit like this.... Once in the Internet always in the Internet is a saying since the dawn of the web. How can people really think they have ANY control over that what they put out there... Its just ridiculous. Especially content like this will always be around once it got out.

It's consequences of her actions. It may not seem like her fault, but life is like that. We make some decisions naively and then they come back to bite us in the butt.

Issues like this will be so common in the future that I'd be interested to see how women cope with it.

they won't need to post anything. AI porn will get more realistic and leave women with no control over our online image whatsoever

I'm more sorry for their future children... just imagine getting bullied with your mothers porn. Ugh...

actions have consequences sweatie

One of the main reasons why I could never consider dating someone who has done onlyfans

My husband was a famous porn star in the early 00's, his movies are all over the internet and he won a couple of awards. He has teenagers, his doing porn has never come up and they're still unaware. People care a lot less than some would expect.

Tbf it's more likely for them to find a female porn star than a male one because it'd be the teen guys who are more likely to watch that shit. Either way I still wouldn't date someone who's done that but I'm not gonna judge anyone who does, unless that person is married to someone who still does it in a committed relationship.

He did gay porn so while being a slightly different demographics but there would still be a lot of teenage boys seeing it. Especially since his oldest is gay.

Just outta curiosity how did you even find it?

Exactly. I find it a bit hypocritical to search for porn then be upset you found your gf's photos from before you met her.

My wife was a model before we met . I don't know if she has old content online because I don't search for that type of content (although I doubt it exists considering our age).

ummm sweatie did you just look up porn? that means you have to marry a porn star

He was looking around desperately for porn of his (at the time) barely legal girlfriend who had the mental state of a child. I wouldn't be surprised if he was searching for child porn when he came across it.

that smells like projection to me

Why so many people are shaming OP's gf is beyond me. OP didn't ask for your opinions on the morality of producing and selling adult content.

Something that can help you as you process this, OP, is to remember that the redistribution of her content is theft. People don't see it as one, but it is a crime in many places to distribute pornographic videos and photos of people online without their consent.

It also helps to know that this isn't a massive deal. Porn has a pretty short shelf life, and people don't usually recognize people from porn IRL. People won't recognize her from her videos in ten years, because people won't generally be watching decades-old porn, and she'll look different in ten years.

Because Redditors will never pass an opportunity by to make it known how much they hate s*x workers.

how new to reddit is this guy

You start by sending us the links. But really dawg billions of women exist without content online. Try one of those.

I swear porn addicts hate s*x workers even more than religious fruitcakes do.

God, it's like 2006 4chan in this thread.

>only 4chan hates s*x workers

try going outside sometimes

(also advised for the 4channers)

also there's this guy that replied do better 9 times to different comments after he had a 6 year break from reddit

BREAKING: Facebook just reached out to me and said they DISABLED the group and also banned the admins from their platform! https://t.co/Dk1xtxi0Rq

— Libs of TikTok (@libsoftiktok) April 12, 2024

You can pick a real place to fortify (even your house). It's like zombieshit meets the real world

Video playthru

After all these years, NYT finally finds a politically correct explanation for lagging female IQ and intellectual accomplishment

...brain damage from being choked during sex

(seriously, the article is a pile of bad reasoning and ignorance) pic.twitter.com/tA96pSHXm8

— Covfefe Anon (@CovfefeAnon) April 12, 2024

Here's the article if anyone wants to circumvent the restrictions and engage in good faith: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/04/12/opinion/choking-teen-s*x-brain-damage.html

Else !foidmoment !moidmoment !fellas !biofoids @Fiona discuss

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